that, if I adhered to, I would have more readers.

Maureen has 7 habits of effective blogging.



I know nothing about being a super influential blogger but I HAVE picked up a few things in two years of doing this. If I adhered to my own seven items I would have far more readers ...

Here are mine

1. Narrow your focus. When I first started blogging I intended to stick with Catholicism and the documenting of my conversion. My traffic died when I started focusing on my severe weather interest. I refocused and have kept my blog more on topic. My focus is: Catholicism - within that; marriage, family, homeschooling, conversion, Early Church Fathers.

2. Post comments on and link to other blogs. Also, use the trackback feature (mine is broken right now and it hurts to have such an important feature disabled) ... This personal interaction lets people know that you are interested in their blog and not just interested in traffic from their blog.

3. Post frequently and consistently -- preferably at least daily. If your brain is suffering from a lack of creativity or just plain fatigue, collect some items of interest on other blogs and link them.

4. Increase your incoming links. Use Technorati and TTLB Ecosystem. Join relevant blog rings and groups (see column to the right under the TTLB Ecosystem). This ensures blog search engines place you high on search items relevant to your blog. Many of my hits come from Yahoo and Google search results.

5. Invest the time in setting up an aggregator (Bloglines is a good online one and I use RSS Bandit). This allows you to monitor scores, if not hundreds of related blogs without actually having to navigate manually to all of them. Bottom line. Keep up with this technology. It gives you a leg up on finding stories and items unique to your niche. FWIW I use Google Reader now.

6. Invest the time in maintaining a blogroll (Bloglines is useful here as well). Link to blogs you read regularly and especially to friends you pick up in blogland that link to you. See also my post on setting up a "fresh blogroll"

7. Include some occasional local flare and outside interests. Note the word occasional. This allows people to know more about who you are but do not allow this to detract from item #1 (FOCUS) ... My list of local churches to visit drives an amazing amount of traffic through my blog.

Some reading ...

Debunking The Myths of Katrina
via ++ relapsed catholic

Overall I think there is some good information in this article, however I take exception with ONE item they label a "myth".
MYTH:"This is a once-in-a-lifetime event."--New Orleans Mayor C. Ray Nagin, press conference, Aug. 28, 2005

The article then argues that
It was "just" a Category 3.
Wilma and Rita proved it was an average storm by standards of how storms are now (comparison to two storms is statistically negligible)
Andrew and Camille were worse because they were Cat 5s.

If ANYTHING Katrina outlined the overly simplistic nature of the Saffir-Simpson scale. We are talking about a storm that produced more deaths than any storm in 75 years, produced the highest surge measured on American soil and produced BY FAR the highest $$$ figure in losses for a hurricane in American history. If that does not qualify as a once in a lifetime event, I don't know what does. It is downplaying the magniture of the whole event.

The significance of hurricanes is not determined by a sigle number. It is determined by a whole myriad of conditions coming together at the same time. There are a handful of places where Cat 3 or higher storms cause this kind of a problem. It just so happens that one of them was hit this past year.

I have said this other places and I will say it again ... Hurricane Stan was a Category 1 and killed as many or more people than Katrina. You likely didn't know that.

It doesn't take a Category 5 to be the top storm.

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Finally, I know someone who was in the Convention Center. Lets just say that the overblown press coverage more accurately detailed the dire conditions inside the building than the "just a few people died" cleanup piece published by local papers days later. The situation was horrible regardless of whether or not the numbers were more correct in the later piece.

In other hurricane prep news ... You are on your own

As Hurricane Season Looms, States Aim to Scare

TIME quote

The editors of TIME, like those who A. M. Rosenthal worked for back in the 1950s, would surely not normally consider this news. But on a day that the German Pope came to Auschwitz to ponder God’s silence, that surprising explosion of colors seemed well worth reporting.

Uganda and now Zambia?

Church-run programs making inroads on AIDS in Zambia

Yes. Its true. Abstinence and fidelity are societal behaviors we want to encourage.

Left to read

Investigating NFP: The Great Embryo Killer?

If Momma Ain't Happy, Ain't Nobody Happy

And for our flight to Tucson later this week ... Travel and toddlers. They go together like nitro and glycerin

work in progress .. to collect and organize thoughts on the topic

I want to thank the many parents who visited and commented on my question below.

In the previous entry I detailed my public school experience in terms of competition and asked homeschool parents whether lack of competition proved to be a problem of the movement. There are a few more points I want to clarify and then I want to attempt to answer the question given what I have read from the comments below and in discussion with other homeschool parents.

First off, my educational experience was unusual. I would label it an excellent public school experience. It was supported by the parents, well funded by local industry and it produced a high percentage of students who went to and completed college. Most of the top 10% graduates went to Ivy League schools. Almost everyone in my class had scholarship money to go to college and the two students (of 157) who didnt go went into the military to raise money for college. The competitive environment I encountered was artificially created by collecting the high achievers into groups. The number of students which drove me to peform better was small (the HSEP school at my high school consisted of about 30 students with an ACT average of almost 28 -- in 1991, for reference). If I had gone to a normal public high school, as many of my friends in college did, I might not have encountered this type of competition (in fact I very much doubt so). Many of my friends in college had to adjust to the rigors of college because they were not driven in high school.

My wife went through a similar environment. Consider that given the above, we will NOT be sending our kids to public school. We had some of the best of what the public school system has to offer and still find homeschooling to be a preferable option for our children.

Which brings me to motivation.

A high level of competition in academic areas can be demonstrated by the performance of homeschooled children in actual academic competitions. The most obvious example of this is the spelling bee competitions. I have been assured by parents that ample opportunity exists to expose children to the necessary environments to drive them to excellence. This is part of the normal social environment sought out by homeschool parents. Still, to me this differs from the socialization question (**1) which to me focuses on the ability of children to participate effectively in society and develop the necessary social skills to do so. The competition aspect focuses more on performance against peers of the same or similar ages. This begs the question: Why limit competition to your age group? Furthermore, doesn't the parent know best how to inspure their own children and seek out the opportunities necessary for intellectual growth?

The homeschool solution for kids who thrive on competition
1. Seek out competitive environments, both academically and athletically to challenge your children to perform in such environments.
2. Get high school kids to take classes at a local community college
3. Set high expectations for children who need them. It doesn't take 30 kids of the same age to do that.
4. Siblings offer competition
5. Self-motivation and competition against yourself cannot be discounted (the runner analogy)

**1 Homeschooling: So what about socialization?

See also Negative aspects of homeschooling

Thinking out loud here ...

I think, possibly, I have come up with a decent criticism of homeschooling. I realize that most of the arguments against homeschooling (socialization and whatnot) are suspect at best. However, I am starting to wonder if a lack of competition is healthy?

Let me explain (and this is not to brag about me)

In elementary school I was always near the top in the class. My parents decided to try and get me into the magnet program, which is where they take the best students at all of the schools and bus them to two schools collecting the so called academic elite. I got in. When I got to middle school I was an average to slightly above average student. I was actually intimidated by the number of kids who were more intelligent than I was. In high school, the competition got worse. I don't think I graduated in the top half of my class. Bottom line is, I had to deal with the stark reality that I wasn't really as smart as I thought I was. By high school, I realized that if I was going to amount to much, I was going to have to work my tail off. That was a necessary realization for me. There were clearly others who could skirt by on their brains far more than I could. Even for them at some point they have to work hard to reach their potential. This competition was good for me and it drove me to actually work harder. There were people there who performed at a high level and I could see that.

How am I going to approximate this at home? Is it even necessary? I read somewhere recently about a homeschooled boy who started studying special relativity at the age of 13. Stanford took him in a heartbeat because he had demonstrated a drive to tackle hard subject matter on his own. Did he need the competition or did the love of learning drive him to excellence? If he had the competition, where did he get it? I don't know. I might be looking at the competition aspect all wrong. Maybe athletics is a better place to drive home that point rather than in academia. Then again, I know with bowling, competition is ultimately with yourself, however, you are not going to get really good at that without help (actual or competitive) from people who are better than you are.

If any of you homeschoolers are reading this I would like your input. The more the merrier.

Pope ends Poland trip with poignant visit to Auschwitz

A brilliant rainbow lanced a leaden sky as Benedict, an aide holding an umbrella over his head, later paused before each of the 22 plaques at the Birkenau annex's International Monument to the Victims of Fascism.

I just thought this was interesting.

Contrasts In Media Treatment of The DaVinci Code and The Passion - HT: Jimmy Akin -- you know, one of the main things I have noticed in this whole bit is the conspiracy aspect of it. In my reading of various debates dealing with Christian history there has always been a surprisingly large number of people who believe the whole line of reasoning that the fact that their churches cannot be proven to exist PROVES that there was a major conspiracy by the Catholic Church to cover them up. Quite simply, lack of evidence = evidence. The Da Vinci Code and its strongest supporters fall in the same camp. In a more disturbing light, consider the following:

If Dan Brown wrote a novel about the Holocaust it would probably look like this:

Almost everyone with any sense would dismiss a book along those lines. The interesting point about this entry is that the generally accepted credibility amongst historians of the sources is likely similar. The difference is, many people want desperately to believe the Da Vinci Code is true because the claims of the Church haunt them. Without a solid moral standard to hold to, morality becomes a matter of taste. The Catholic Church openly teaches exactly the opposite of that. There is a reason this Pontiff rails against the "dictatorship of relativism".

One final (and I mean final) thought on DVC -- I have been disturbed in my reading over the last week or so at the number of Protestants who dismiss the Code as something that ONLY attacks the Catholic Church and that somehow their beliefs escape unscathed. Most obviously, the Divinity of Christ is attacked, without which almost every form of Christianity is reduced to rubbish. I am always shocked at the number of anti-Catholics who have decided to use a story that undermines even their own faith in the search for bullet points against the Catholic Church.

I third this ...

This issue of National Review contains William F. Buckley's May 9, 2006, column, in which he writes the following:

Of course Bush can hardly endorse unrestrained capitalism and pursue the grace of Christ. Those who worship capitalism to sacramental lengths are defiantly anti-Christian, like Ayn Rand and her unholy Objectivists, and that branch of libertarianism which acknowledges only the market as authority, practical or moral.

Lifted shamelessly from turtleheart.net

The idea of pawning off the requirement to "love our neighbors" to private enterprise to get us off the hook of having to perfom acts of charity has always been disturbing to me. Now, replace "private enterprise" with "the government" -- still disturbing. Glad to see it in print.

My favorite anti-homeschooling argument

Dealing with bullies is part of normal life and you can only expose your children to that aspect of life at its full potential at SCHOOL ... Ummm, yeah folks -- learning to deal with bullies is NOT NORMAL

The School of Hard Knocks Makes you stupid -- I guess that is a variation on sin makes you stupid. The right order of things is, well ... RIGHT. If everyone were living saints we wouldn't have to deal with bullying. I think God would be perfectly thrilled if all of the sudden bullying were eliminated because of a mass conversion of the world. But we would sure miss that character building ... and besides, my hypothetical scenario isn't reality.

Just because reality dictates that we have to deal with SOME adversity doesn't mean we need to further introduce our children to the colder nature of it in order to better build character. It will be there. There is no point in looking for it.

The Celiac solution

Instead, he took only the Precious Blood.

Imagine that!!! As My Domestic Church notes, there were no headlines. See my previous entry "why wheat?"

Finally, yet another interesting ECF post over at FathersOfTheChurch

St. Clement of Rome’s First Letter to the Corinthians possibly written before 70 A.D???

When I was trying to put together my ECF chart I noticed that the dating of the Didache is considered quite contentious so my decision on the site was to go with the latest date that I could find as I figured it served the purposes of my site quite well. Since then I have noticed that the consensus falls usually before the year 100.

Mike Aquillina has a most fascinating recent blog entry on the Didache.

How old is the Didache? Most scholars place its composition between A.D. 60 and 110. However, one of the top scholars alive, Enrico Mazza, argues very persuasively that the liturgical portions of the document were composed no later than 48 A.D. If he’s correct, that means that our oldest liturgical texts pre-date most of the books of the New Testament.

make sure to read the comments on the dating of the document

Psalm 127
A song of ascents. Of Solomon.
1 Unless the LORD builds the house,
its builders labor in vain.
Unless the LORD watches over the city,
the watchmen stand guard in vain.
2 In vain you rise early
and stay up late,
toiling for food to eat—
for he grants sleep to [a] those he loves.

3 Sons are a heritage from the LORD,
children a reward from him.

4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one's youth.

5 Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.

Little did we know in the time leading up to our wedding that this Psalm would play such a key role in defining who we are.

... more later ...

I would be remiss in not posting something about the Fr. Maciel ruling by the Vatican since my blog gets a significant number of hits from searches related to Legionaries of Christ and Regnum Christi.

So what happened?

"...After having attentively studied the results of the investigation, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, under the guidance of the new prefect, Cardinal William Joseph Levada, decided - bearing in mind Fr. Maciel's advanced age and his delicate health - to forgo a canonical hearing and to invite the father to a reserved life of penitence and prayer, relinquishing any form of public ministry. The Holy Father approved these decisions.

from Vatican News Service via American Papist ..

Fortunately American Papist has succinctly summarized the reaction from both the MSM and St. Blogs: Fr. Maciel removed from ministry: reactions & commentary

Morning reading ... comments later ... maybe. Possibly more reading later.

Toward a Proper Understanding of the Catholic Just War Tradition

Study: Church has healed from scandal

Contrarian couples

An excellent article on the slow but steady growth in the number of people who are choosing not to contracept. The article even makes mention of a person who converted to Catholicism for this very teaching.

Puts a tear in my eye every time. I love being Catholic. HT to Curt Jester

I am sick today ...ugh ...

Anyway, some reading

Through And Through A compelling work of fiction about a priest and a quite unusual confession.

National Review: Idle Speculation - AIDS, condoms, and the Catholic Church.

A good point from Mark Shea on the whole "Isn't it just fiction?" retort from Da Vinci Code supporters

I proposed a fictional film in which all the homosexuals in the world were engaged in a vast conspiracy to destroy Western Civilization.

"That would be offensive."

No duh.

The *only* time people fall for this notion that a fictional story which goes out of its way to malign and defame a billion people is "just fiction" is when it bashes Christians. The only time such people believe it will have absolutely no effect on what people think is with the Da Vinci Code. Try making a modern fictional film in which blacks are all watermelon-eating Stepin Fetchit dunces, or Jews are all conniving lechers and you will (rightly) get a storm of protest because these lies are pernicious and do real damage. But declare Christians the suckers of a 2000 year old Vatican conspiracy of murder and lies in the service of "the greatest coverup of all time", blaspheme Jesus and call all Christians fools for believing in him: that's just fiction.

Randall Terry, founder of Operation Rescue, converts to Catholicism

Science is on the side of attachment parenting

She argues that the practice common in Britain of training children to sleep alone from a few weeks old is harmful because any separation from parents increases the flow of stress hormones such as cortisol.

Her findings are based on advances in scientific understanding over the past 20 years of how children’s brains develop, and on studies using scans to analyse how they react in particular circumstances.

For example, a neurological study three years ago showed that a child separated from a parent experienced similar brain activity to one in physical pain.

Catholic England: Pugin, Newman, the new Catholic aristocracy and classical liturgics

What we pass on to our children A response to common criticism that if you have too many kids you will not be able to afford college for all of them

It is clear then from this chapter that Jesus was teaching us to be ready and what to do with our time here on earth. He was saying that the time and talent we have been given is for serving each other here on earth.

That's not to say that education isn't important, or even helpful in pursuing those goals, but rather that as parents, our main goal for our time with our children is to teach them to be ready to meet Jesus, to develop their talents in a way that will be pleasing to God, and to live a life that gives Him glory. Anything else, is just extra.

The race is towards Christ, not worldly success.

Differences between Catholicism and Protestantism

A pretty good basic overview, especially in terms of the Anglican church. Authored by Serge

The Real Da Vinci Code - A riot even if you are not a programmer.

Marty Haugen, Call Your Canonist
- "If a lector learns to play the guitar, he shall also be instructed to confess it. If he does not return to it, he shall suffer his penance for seven weeks. If he keeps at it, he shall be excommunicated and put out of the Church."

Eleven new priests for Denver, largest ordination class in 40 years - I bet they are orthodox as well. Good news indeed!!!

Add-on to Bettnet - "The baby was conceived within the first week of the marriage, quite the efficiency!" - I'll say ... Congrats are certainly in order.

Bell falls through tower at former Portland church

You Must be a Home Educator if....

So here we go ... weeks and weeks of people fighting about the Da Vinci Code are upon us ...

Contentious Notions: Are They True? - Inaccuracies in the Da Vinci Code. Basically a liberal rag saying what the rest of us already knew. HT to Katolik Shinja

How The Da Vinci Code Doesn't Work - HowStuffWorks.com. HT to The Curt Jester

I suggest visiting Amy Welborn's blog during this time - open book

Miracles: Evidence of God's Existence

If I were an atheist, I think I would save my money to buy a plane ticket to Italy to see whether the blood of Saint Januarius really did liquefy and congeal miraculously, as it is supposed to do annually.

(click the link to finish reading it)

Patristics blog

Did I mention that I love Patristics ... I also love the Fathers of the Church blog. A couple of good recent posts ...

Honest pagans on the historical Jesus
The Early Church Fathers on Breastfeeding? Here is a quick summary

Mike Aquilina - Breastfeeding imagery. Didnt have stigmas about it. Incidence of it much higher. Public. Metaphor for Gods grace, sacraments, especially Eucharist - God feeds us with His own substance.
Odes of Solomon
St Clement of Alexandria "Jesus as the milk ..."
Book of Steps
St Augustine - natural rhythm in breastfeeding (mutual need)

Its only a few minutes right at the end. Take the time to download the file and listen to it.

Recent polls show Americans shifting to pro-life attitudes

I had a talk with a liberal friend of mine the other day and I noticed, as I am noticing more and more, a tendency of liberals to think "you know, there are way too many abortions". It seems that willingness to concede that there should, in fact, be severe limitations is one that a tremendous majority of folks will go for, including a growing percentage of those on the left side of the aisle. Democrats for Life spelled out a plan for pushing to eliminate 90% of existing abortions while still retaining the legality of it. It is a far cry from perfect. It is certainly a step in the right direction.

Ummm myself?! on marriage

Someone paid me a nice complement today and said that I write good things about marriage. He even suggested that I write a book. He was looking for something that I had written elsewhere. I looked up some items that I transferred to my blog. Here are the items I know I posted in that venue that are also here.

A crush: How it consumes us and why it is different from the love that makes a marriage work
On Being Single ... from a married guy
The best of my unsolicited advice about getting married
No kissing before you get married
Never fight
Nice guys finish in heaven

found a couple of posts I wrote on DCF that I wanted to keep

Who cares what works NOW. Nice guys finish in heaven.

Love is about pursuit. Pursue Jesus and if it is His will, she will come ...

Consider the following idea:
Dating -- particularly the worldly idea "serial monogamy" vs.
Until death .... sacramental marriage

One idea is being fed to you constantly through standard media outlets and the other is likely not being talked about at your church. Serial monogamy (highly encouraged by the dating mentality) undermines the idea of "until death". It creates a mindset of disposable relationships. I have been fortunate to have a few friends who have prepared for marriage recently discuss with me with their pre-marriage issues. Its like a broken record. Both had cold feet. I had it as well. In every case it reeked of direct attack from Satan on a marriage that is likely to result in increasingly holy spouses and large numbers of children raised in the faith. It is the systematic undermining of "until death" by the idea that "well, there has to be someone better out there" ...

Men like to be logical. We think "There are 3 BILLION women in the world. Statistically speaking the perfect one must exist ... right?" The conclusion is that I must date as many women as possible to be able to discern the right one. Stop thinking in terms of better, more beautiful. You will hear the following phrases from many women -- "this guy is dating material" vs. "that guy is marriage material" ... Guess which one you want to be? The guy with no dating experience who is "marriage material".

IMHO, you should be preparing yourself to be a husband and not worrying about who she is. The rare woman, (read Proverbs 31 for a description) marries with her eternal destination in mind. She seeks the man whose headship she does not fear. She is looking for a man who will accelerate her path to holiness by his support and His strength. That type of woman is an asset to your journey towards Christ. I am not saying marry someone who is going to be a source of suffering. The one who is dissing you because you are nice is likely to bring plenty of that. I am saying marry someone who assists in fixating your every fiber towards Christ. She is rare and she might be right under your nose but you are not going to notice her Christ-like qualities in a dating mentality. Take some time away from that rat race and bury your face in total submission at the foot of the Cross ... All good relationships begin there.

Prepare for your role. God will know when you are ready. Let Him provide the final piece. The hard work isn't finding the right one. The hard work is being ready if and when the right one comes.

found a couple of posts I wrote on DCF that I wanted to keep

"Then she tells me that she doesn't think we're good for each other because we never fight."

I hesitate to post this but I think it needs to be said. What I bolded above is a great lie that undermines WAY too many relationships. I hear it all the time. I think people are confusing undisciplined anger with "passion".

It falls into the category of statements like "kids can't control themselves so we have to give them condoms". It seems sensible, however, as Christians, we are called to perfection and perfection doesn't have room for undisciplined sexual behavior just like it doesn't have room for undisciplined anger.

My wife and I hardly fight. In fact, we only fought a tiny bit before we got married but the vast majority of that was pride and hard-headedness on my part. Once I learned that sacrifice trumps selfishness in a relationship things started to get a lot more peaceful. The first year had some occasional quibbles but years 2-5, save a couple of minor disagreements was almost event free. I think people who fight all the time seem to think that it is a measure of some level of honesty that those of us who don't fight are missing. I hear more than my share of seemingly happy married couples who tell us they worry about us because we don't fight. I think they need to worry more about why they DO fight than why we don't. Fighting doesn't have to be a persistent condition of marriage. Its something you can choose to virtually eliminate but you have to be prepared to sacrifice in order to have it, which means swallowing your pride when you know you are wrong.

There is something to be said for knowing that disagreements will happen. They will. Whether or not what results of the disagreement is labelled a fight or not depends on how you deal with it.

My parents just made their 50th anniversary and are still pleased as punch to be married. They fought once when I was about 8 and from talking to my mom, there were some troubles at the start and then things ironed out for 49 years with a few speed bumps Smile.

this is a work in progress ... I will likely update it in the next few days

This question is raised by every well meaning person who finds out that we are planning on homeschooling.

The idea that there is something wrong with the socialization aspect of homeschooling typically presumes a few things:
1. That socialization of children in age-homogenous classrooms is necessary for normal social development
2. That homeschooled children avoid contact with their peers
3. That adults who were homeschooled are generally unable to function in society

MYTH: Socialization of children in age-homogenous classrooms is required for normal social development

Historically speaking, age-homogenous classrooms are a novelty. Plenty of the most brilliant minds, not to mention socially relevant and historical persons, of the past were privately tutored, raised in one room school houses with children of diverse ages or educated themselves. In fact there is even some criticism from within the school environment related to age-homogenous classrooms. -- See multi-age classrooms -- For this to be a valid criticism of homeschooling, it would require showing that there is something inherently wrong with raising children primarily in a family environment with REGULAR social interaction with other children who happen to be located OUTSIDE of a classroom environment. What is so necessary about a classroom that makes it more suitable for proper social development than social environments outside of the classroom? In fact, it would be easy to argue that students should NOT be socializing in class in the first place. After all, they are there to learn. I spent my entire education in public schools and I can assure you that I did not have a significant amount of time to get to know my fellow students at school. Recess and lunch were the exceptions but that time was still limited. My best friendships, even with those I met at school, were developed OUTSIDE of school time.

MYTH: Homeschooled children avoid contact with their peers

Lets start with some study statistics: "The typical homeschooler takes part in at least five social activities outside the home every week" (Source) "Another study points out that 98% of homeschool students are involved in more than one activity outside the home." (Source)

Part of the seed of this myth stems from the idea that homeschool parents WANT to isolate their children. Let us consider this in light of the most common reasons cited for homeschooling.

The following three reasons are cited as the most common reasons that parents homeschool (Source).

31.2% Concern about environment of other schools
29.8% To provide religious or moral instruction
16.5% Dissatisfaction with academic instruction at other schools

Initially "concern about environment of other schools" may seem like a bunch of parents hauling their kids into a cave to avoid all contact with the human species. This, however, is not typically the case. The summary of this report (Source) noted that "safety, drugs, or negative peer pressure" were the most often cited within the subset of this concern about the schooling environment. The idea is to isolate your children from negative influences more than from children as a whole. It is a logical fallacy to think that parents would not want their children in contact with other children just because they don't want their kids in contact with bad influences. Bad influences are not "normal society" however they are part of normal society. Not only that, bad influences are unavoidable. Homeschool parents with any sense realize that socialization of their children is necessary. Mine beg for it and it is this oft cited criticism that has resulted in homeschool parents making contact with other children a priority in their lives.

MYTH: Adults who were homeschooled are generally unable to function in society

A study was done by the National Home Education Research Institute specifically to counter this claim. The results of the survey are as follows:

Homeschool adults:

Attend religious services at a higher rate than typical US adults (93% to 41%)
Are more involved in the political process. They

- Contribute money to political parties / candidates at a higher rate
- Work for political causes at a higher rate
- Attend public meetings at a higher rate
- Write editorials / sign petitions at a higher rate
- Participate in protests and boycotts at a higher rate
- VOTE at a SIGNIFICANTLY higher rate (nearly DOUBLE in age ranges surveyed)

Volunteer for service organizations at a significantly higher rate than typical US adults (71% to 37%)

They are also generally more satisfied with life, with their careers and with their financial situations than the average US adult in their age range. (Source)

Blogs are changing how we get facts. That you and I can go out there and tell things as we see them, and in some cases even get quoted by MSM outlets, is a sign of things to come.

For better or worse no viewpoint is left unturned in the blogosphere. The grass roots organizations that fueled the last presidential election depended on this Internet of ours to get their messages across. Drudge busted Clinton. Swift Boat Vets went after Kerry. MoveOn.org went after Bush. There is are even opposing grass roots organizations to fight for and against Wal-Mart. Their purpose? Distribute one side of the information.

"For years, labor leaders were fighting Wal-Mart the old way, but times have changed," Kofinis said. "Instead of organizing workers, they're trying to organize the nation" against Wal-Mart.

Think about this though ... This type of information exchange coupled with a nation unable to discern the difference between fact and opinion. Now thats a scary thought ....

.. One more reason to homeschool and ensure my kids know that difference.

The mainstream media's concept of a lift on the condom ban is far off the mark within the debate between the likes of Barragàn and Trujillo. Neither of the camps is suggesting approving of the use of condoms without or even within marriage. Barragàn is suggesting that within marriage where one spouse is infected with AIDS, the use of condoms may be permitted to save the life of the uninfected spouse.

The difficulty with the argument is that in such dire circumstances abstinence must be counselled as condoms would close the sexual act to the gift of life and would not protect the uninfected partner from transmission. Suggesting condoms for prevention of disease, therefore, would be the equivalent of an anti-smoking group suggesting smokers switch to low-tar cigarettes.

from Vatican Cardinal on Condoms: Error in Reporting, I Don't Have the Authority to Produce a Document. Also †Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam† (OK the crosses in the title are cool)

Shouldn't we be up in arms that Catholic teaching was so grossly misreported by 99% of the press? No ... wait ... I forget ... this is the norm. But yes, we should be up in arms.

Fear of the Bible

The Bible is nothing to be afraid of--and it is something that every Catholic should be involved with in Mass and outside of Mass. Ignorance of Scripture--Old Testament and New--is ignorance of Christ.

Feministe's Church Lady WOW -- an interesting trip into the phenomenon of cultural Catholicism. Heaven forbid anyone ACTUALLY believe what the Church teaches. We pesky converts are ruining the Church and people are leaving because of us?

... speaking of the media again ...

Mark Shea: Vatican Cracks Down on Devout Catholics in Bus Plunge: Hardliner Pope Takes Rigidly Orthodox Position Against Vehicular Homicide

The comments are worth a read ...

Kenyan bishops have achieved what's still stuck in committee in the USA

"The music should be aligned with the doctrine and the liturgy of the Catholic Church," the bishop told the Daily Nation. "There have been cases where choir masters and composers have come up with all sorts of music which tended to be a disgrace to the Catholic faith."

I look towards the vibrant faith in Africa with much admiration.

The press is forever reporting on the truth as they see it ...

Catholic Church to Ease Ban on Condom Use - along with 221 other articles as of this posting on the topic

In a victory for reform-minded critics of the Vatican, Pope Benedict XVI has now reversed the Catholic Church's long-standing position with regard to the use of condoms to combat the spread of the HIV virus.

... which is of course based on this gem of a quote

The Vatican's "health minister" Cardinal Javier Lozano Barragan, who is close to the pope, told the Rome-based newspaper La Repubblica "It was the pope who took the initiative over this very sensitive and difficult issue."

What ONE Cardinal says the pope says becomes Truth .. sigh ...

Meanwhile the press also conveniently avoids reporting the Truth as it IS

Catholic Church has not changed life positions, Vatican official says

The president of the Pontifical Academy for Life, responding to statements by Cardinal Carlo Maria Martini, said the Catholic Church has not changed its position on fundamental issues, such as the right to life from conception to natural death.

In a conversation with the Catholic News Agency, Msgr. Elio Sgreccia said he preferred not to directly address the statements by Cardinal Carlo Maria Martini, retired archbishop of Milan.

“At the Vatican, we do not consider it necessary make a controversy out of something that does not merit it.”

This was the ONLY article mentioning this that I found this morning.

221 articles based on stretches of the immagination and the word of one Cardinal (not the Pope mind you) vs.
1 article based on the longstanding and unchanging teaching of the Church.

No wonder Catholics around the world are confused.

I cannot write today for the life of me ... looks like the south Louisiana heat is already starting its oppression ...

So you get some links instead ... :)

The Nashville Dominicans - "Many young women are considering authentic religious life." ... I could be wrong but I think this is the same group of nuns that conjured up this big hoo-rah when Benedict XVI was elected:

We are thrilled

Yes indeed ... a strange photo essay - Drive-In Church Photo Essay courtesy of Waiting in Joyful Hope

Cathedral Tour: Madrid, Spain - Our ancestors who built glorious monuments to God continue to stand proclaiming "Jesus is Lord"!!!